Tag: Professional development

Book Review: Set Boundaries, Find Peace

Posted on by Rosemarie

Nedra Glover Tawwab’s Set Boundaries, Find Peace is a reminder that boundaries are not barriers. They are a way to create clarity, protect our well-being, and strengthen relationships both at work and in our personal lives. The book offers practical tools that help shift the idea of boundaries from something restrictive to something that builds healthier connections.


One of the strongest points Tawwab makes is that boundaries are an act of respect. They are not designed to keep others away but to define how we can engage with each other in ways that feel sustainable. For leaders, this lesson is powerful. Boundaries set the tone for what is expected and allow teams to function without the frustration of unspoken assumptions. I have seen firsthand how the absence of clear boundaries creates confusion and drains energy. On the other hand, when expectations are communicated openly, the result is stronger alignment and a healthier team dynamic.


The book also emphasizes that boundaries are deeply tied to peace of mind. They protect our ability to be present and to contribute where we are needed most. Without them, it is easy to slip into exhaustion, resentment, or burnout. In my own role, I have experienced the temptation to always be available or to take on more than is realistic. It can feel like a sign of commitment, but it is rarely sustainable. Reading Tawwab’s work reminded me that boundaries are not selfish. They are essential if we want to remain effective leaders over the long term.

What resonated most with me was how Tawwab reframed boundaries as tools for communication and connection. Setting boundaries is not about control but about ensuring that our best energy is reserved for the work and relationships that matter most. This is something I continue to practice. Protecting focus time on my calendar, honoring family commitments, and defining ownership across my team are small but important ways to maintain balance. When leaders model these behaviors, it signals to others that it is acceptable to do the same.

The impact extends beyond the individual, creating a culture where trust and respect are valued more than constant availability.
Set Boundaries, Find Peace is more than a self-help book. It is a guide to creating balance and clarity in a world that constantly demands more of us. For me, it was both a reminder and a challenge. The reminder is that peace is possible when we draw clear lines around our time and energy. The challenge is to keep practicing those boundaries daily, even when it feels easier to give in.


After reading this book, I find myself reflecting on which boundaries in my life still need strengthening. That may be the most valuable part of Tawwab’s message: it invites us not only to learn but also to act. If you read this book, I encourage you to pause and identify one area where you could set a clearer boundary this week. It may be a small step, but it could be the first step toward finding more peace.

Book Review: Leveling Up by Ryan Leak

Posted on by Rosemarie

When I heard Ryan Leak speak at a leadership conference in January, one phrase landed hard with me: “fail forward.” That message came to life even more as I read his book Leveling Up. At the time, I was in a relatively new executive role and navigating the uncertainty and stretch that comes with it. Leak’s perspective reframed failure for me, not as a stopping point, but as data I could use to grow.

Since then, I have gone on to read all of his books, but Leveling Up is the one that continues to shape my day-to-day leadership. Leak makes a compelling case that growth does not happen when we wait for perfect conditions. It happens when we are willing to move forward before we feel fully ready. That lesson is especially relevant for leaders, because our teams often need to see us take the first step before they will feel comfortable doing the same.

It can be tempting to see obstacles as proof that we are not cut out for the next step, but Leak encourages us to interpret them differently. If things feel too easy, we are probably not stretching ourselves. For me, that shift in perspective has been powerful. Challenges are not signs of weakness, but signs of progress.Failures and setbacks are not evidence that we should stop, but opportunities to learn and adjust. This idea of failing forward is not just about personal growth, but also about how we lead others. When teams see failure treated as information rather than punishment, they become more willing to innovate, to take risks, and to bring forward new ideas.

One of the things that makes Leveling Up so powerful is how Ryan Leak frames growth around twelve guiding questions. These are not meant to be answered once and filed away, but to be lived with, wrestled with, and returned to often. As I reflected on them, I found they naturally fall into three themes: vision, connection, and rhythm.

When it comes to vision, Leak pushes us to define success on our own terms and to stay aware of how we show up for others. He asks, What is my definition of success? What is it like to be on the other side of me? How can I get better? These questions invite clarity, honesty, and humility. They are qualities every leader needs.

The theme of connection focuses on how we interact with and support others. Questions like What credit can I give away? Whose dream do I need to support? What mistakes can I own? remind me that leadership is not only about personal achievement. It is about lifting others up and creating space for shared wins.

Finally, there is the theme of rhythm, the pace and posture with which we move through life. Leak challenges us with questions like What risk do I need to take? What is the right thing to do? How am I managing my time? Do I have to do it all? Am I enjoying it? Who knows who I really am? These are the questions that hit hardest in the daily grind, because they call us back to balance, authenticity, and joy.

Seeing all twelve questions together makes it clear why Leak calls this book Leveling Up. They are not about chasing perfection. They are about building awareness and courage at every stage of growth. They serve as checkpoints that help us see where we are, where we are headed, and how we want to show up along the way.

  1. What is my definition of success?
  2. What is it like to be on the other side of me?
  3. How can I get better?
  4. What credit can I give away?
  5. What mistakes can I own?
  6. What risk do I need to take?
  7. Whose dream do I need to support?
  8. What is the right thing to do?
  9. How am I managing my time?
  10. Do I have to do it all?
  11. Am I enjoying it?
  12. Who knows who I really am?

Leveling Up is both motivating and practical, blending inspiration with tools that leaders can apply right away. It is a book about courage, mindset, and the small but meaningful choices that move us toward the next version of ourselves. For me, it has been a reminder to stop waiting for the perfect moment and to embrace the process of growth, with all of its challenges and rewards.

As I continue to reflect on Leak’s work, I find myself asking the same question I will pose here: what is the next area of your life or leadership that you are ready to level up?

Book Review: The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker

Posted on by Rosemarie

Priya Parker’s The Art of Gathering is a masterclass in rethinking what it means to host and participate in gatherings. Whether it’s a business meeting, family dinner, or community event, Parker argues that the purpose of a gathering should guide every decision, from the guest list to the format.

One of the book’s central lessons is the importance of being intentional. Instead of defaulting to routine, Parker challenges hosts to ask, “Why are we gathering?” Parker critiques the “rules” of social norms, encouraging readers to rethink traditions and create gatherings that are meaningful, memorable, and transformative.

From creating safe spaces for vulnerability to designing moments of shared experience, Parker shows how gatherings can deepen relationships and leave lasting impressions. In a world where virtual meetings and impersonal events are increasingly common, The Art of Gathering offers a refreshing perspective on how to create experiences that matter. Parker’s insights are as relevant for corporate leaders as they are for anyone planning a dinner party.

This book is a must-read for anyone looking to bring people together with intention, authenticity, and impact.

Book Review: Chasing Failure by Ryan Leak

Posted on by Rosemarie


I recently had the honor of hearing Ryan Leak speak live at my company’s annual executive leadership conference. His stage presence, authenticity, and comedic delivery had most of us adding one (or in my case, all) of his books to our digital carts before he was even done with his segment. Chasing Failure arrived first, so let’s dig right in! This book opens with a compelling question:

“What would you do if you weren’t afraid to fail?”

Leak uses Chasing Failure to urge readers to rethink how they approach fear, risk, and ambition. For anyone looking to step outside their comfort zone, this book is a powerful reminder that failure is not the end; it’s often the beginning.

Failure is inevitable and valuable. In Chasing Failure, Leak reframes failure as a necessary step on the path to growth. He shares personal stories and examples of high achievers who embraced failure as a learning tool, challenging readers to do the same.

The book encourages setting bold goals, even when the odds feel stacked against you. Leak’s own journey to try out for an NBA team, despite slim chances, epitomizes the idea of dreaming big.

Resilience is also a major theme of this book.  By shifting the focus from avoiding failure to cultivating resilience, Leak provides a roadmap for achieving sustainable success.

As someone who often juggles high-stakes decisions, Chasing Failure reminded me that perfection isn’t the goal – progress is. Leak’s conversational tone and actionable insights make it a motivating read for anyone ready to redefine their relationship with failure.

Whether you’re charting a new career path or pursuing a personal dream, this book is an inspiring guide to embracing fear, taking risks, and finding purpose in the process.

Next up on my Leak reading list is Leveling Up. Come back to the blog for a review soon! Have you read any books by Ryan Leak? If so, let me know what you think!