Book Review: The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker

Priya Parker’s The Art of Gathering is a masterclass in rethinking what it means to host and participate in gatherings. Whether it’s a business meeting, family dinner, or community event, Parker argues that the purpose of a gathering should guide every decision, from the guest list to the format.

One of the book’s central lessons is the importance of being intentional. Instead of defaulting to routine, Parker challenges hosts to ask, “Why are we gathering?” Parker critiques the “rules” of social norms, encouraging readers to rethink traditions and create gatherings that are meaningful, memorable, and transformative.

From creating safe spaces for vulnerability to designing moments of shared experience, Parker shows how gatherings can deepen relationships and leave lasting impressions. In a world where virtual meetings and impersonal events are increasingly common, The Art of Gathering offers a refreshing perspective on how to create experiences that matter. Parker’s insights are as relevant for corporate leaders as they are for anyone planning a dinner party.

This book is a must-read for anyone looking to bring people together with intention, authenticity, and impact.